The 4 Arts of Self Sabotage

The equation for human performance is the following:

Performance = Potential – Self-Sabotage

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Blowing myself up, Photo credit: Heberger Site

That is it. You achieve not what your boss lets you, not what the others let you… you achieve what you don’t screw up for yourself.

In the years since I first wrote this equation up in a class and people said “No… it can’t be that” I have become more and more convinced that the greatest devil in our own lives is the 4 Arts of Self Sabotage.

The 4 Arts of Self-Sabotage

  1. Distraction: Lack of Focus
  2. Fixed mindset: “I have what I have now because of who I am, not how hard I have worked”
  3. Arrogance: sometimes seen as Denial, sometimes as Nostalgia, sometimes as Victim, sometimes as Sole Hero
  4. Inability to Handle Anxiety (or anger, or rage, or fear)

Success in life, whether sporting success, writing success or financial success has more to do with overcoming these 4 arts of self-sabotage than any level of original brilliance or one-time shots of luck.

1 Comment

  1. Spot-on. Brilliant distillation of the primary weaknesses of human beings. How to overcome them? Work, practice, honesty, ethics, honor, support, faith and maybe even some luck – all words that are out-of-favor in the Victim-oriented media, culture and the societies thereby influenced.

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